'ACKNOWLEDGE THE FACT THAT HATERS THRIVE ON HATE' - STELLA DAMASCUS SHARES 'SUCCESSFUL' TIPS ON MANAGING CYBER BULLYING AND HATERS

Like many other celebrities, Stella Damasus, has had her fair share of cyber bullying and media bashing from fans and non fans alike.

The actress decided to share some tips with people who are curious about how she manages the social media trolls without seeming to be bothered by them.

Here are the powerful tips she shared on her blog below:

”People have asked me over the years how I have handled the criticisms, trolls, negative comments, media bashing and crazy insults. I have put together 20 of the most effective methods that have helped me. I hope you find them useful.”

1. Acknowledge the fact that haters thrive on Hate. It is a negative attribute/trait which kills internally and fast.

2. If you claim to be a positive person, don’t waste your time dwelling on the negative.

3. You need to understand the fact that these people are HURTING within themselves. They need to escape from that hurt or take it out on someone.

4. Don’t let them drag you into their HATE HOLE. If you hate them back then you have become exactly like them. Your loss.

5. You cannot control what people do or say, but you can control how you react to it.

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6. INTERNET TROLLING is a very addictive habit. Instead of making them important, see them as addicts who desperately need rehabilitation. Addiction is a silent killer.

7. Don’t waste your time getting angry at people who don’t even know you. It is not logical to allow strangers feed off your anger. They are not worth your emotions.

8. Most times, people who make the loudest noise need attention. They can never be relevant without it. Don’t be the one to make them popular by responding.

9. Get used to the fact that FREE social media has given even the most ignorant and jobless person a platform to speak his ignorance and lash out.

10. Rage is such a powerful life consuming emotion. It takes a lot of pain and anger to spit out VENOM, especially on people they don’t know. Your HATERS feel that they are hurting you when they say ugly things to you but they don’t realize how deep their pain has eaten into them. Pray for them because they are in pain and their hearts are deeply troubled.
Remember that they may not realize this until it’s too late.


Read full tips on stelladamasusblog.com

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