DAILY SPRINGS: THE POWER OF THE WORD "YES"

By Gift Eniye and Emmanuel Chiedu SB

Answering questions naturally can be challenging sometimes, but in matters related to the heart; it needs a critical reflection on whether to say YES or NO.

Many a times, when the big question is popped, like; Will you be my girlfriend or will you marry me? And the girl will be too excited to say Yes. But my dear, have you given it a real thought of what you're getting yourself into? Are you saying yes for the right reasons?

Yes, are you saying yes for the right reasons? Below are some suggested questions to ask yourself;

1. Am I saying yes for my own selfish benefits?
2. Am I saying yes because I pity him?
3. Am I saying yes out of peer pressure? Or
4. Is it because I love him?
5. Does this option have an expiry date?

One of the most uplifting words in the English language can be one of the most upsetting when it's said without considering the consequences -Columnist Leigh Newman.

It gives many people a great concern to worry about ladies who ends up in the wrong hands. How does crap like this happen to good women.....smart women who know better? How do the warning signs elude them?

Research has it that, 75% of ladies give in loosely to a relationship without having a rethink. Thereby making the guys feel like an hero that they are not.

It is always easier to make the right decision when you spend some time to think about it. Rushing into questions, be it a marriage proposal, or any other question, may result in making wrong decisions.

It is better to say nothing than to say a big yes you end up regretting all your life. It is even worse to say yes, then come back tomorrow with a no. That would upset even the calmest human on earth.

So, take your time, think about that question, before you give an answer. A day spent thinking might just save you from a lifetime spent regretting.

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